Social Awareness: Identifying the Key Traits of Interpersonal Connection

Course Synopsis

Interpersonal connection isn’t just “chatting”—it’s a dynamic process shaped by five core characteristics:

• Independent Individuals
Everyone brings unique motivations, expectations, and interpretations (e.g., two team members can hear the same feedback yet walk away with different takeaways).

• Vulnerability
Real connection requires self-exposure—sharing thoughts, feelings, and your authentic lens on the world.

• Innate Rationality
Communication assumes shared intelligence and intent. As demonstrated in Milgram’s obedience study, we expect messages to be understood and even followed.

• Constant & Inescapable
Whether you’re speaking, texting, or simply present in a room, you’re always sending messages—verbal or not.

• Personal Choice
Every word and gesture is a deliberate choice, making connection a skill you can learn and refine.